This should be interesting to watch unfold, I think I'll sit on the sidelines and watch it backfire. So many different words will come out of this. You're only looking at two sides of the box. There are far more words that have derogatory meanings.
If someone kills someone you adore/love do you have the person killed for the crime? Or do you subdue them to delay the sentence. On one hand you're avenging a death, but from another point of view you've sunken to the mental layer of the convicted, which makes you no better. Then again if you subdue them, matters are taken out of your hands and anything could happen. The point I'm attempting to make is that unless your list covers everything you will have accomplished nothing by making it. And short of a filter on text or an admin present and alert at all times, stuff will get by. And theres also the people from other cultures speaking in tongues most of us do not know. There are many variables you have to cover with this sort of thing. So choose which ones matter the most to your plan, I wish you luck with your budding paradox.
My two cents, I'll probably edit all of this post out later, insomnia talking.
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